If anything could make me feel bi-polar, living in this country would do it. This week has been filled with highs and lows. One moment I absolutely love the country and the next moment I am beyond frustrated with everything in it. Thankfully, by the end of the day I have a quiet feeling of contentment towards it.
One of the frustrations of living in this country is the fact that everything is either written or spoken in a different language. Obviously. Simple things such as going to the grocery store becomes 100x's more difficult. For example, trying to find broth to make soup turned into this huge ordeal where I had three workers helping me and I still ended up with the wrong item. Also, since the directions are all written in Korean, half the time it's a complete guess on my part on how to actually prepare something. Thankfully, I have a knowledge of how to cook to stem off of, so nothing has turned disastrous (yet).
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Common sense would tell me to boil water and then add the contents into the water. It seems to work. Don't ask me what it is that I am eating, however, as I couldn't tell you. |
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I DO know the name of this--Mandu! Or dumplings. Thankfully, most items have pictures on it so I just go by the picture. It works well 90% of the time. Sometimes you end up with something like the congealed blood in intestines though. I have learned to expect the unexpected. Especially when it comes to the grocery store. |
Another thing I am still getting used to is how I am constantly being stared at and having my picture taken. I will be sitting on the subway and I will hear a camera go off. Looking up (usually from the book I am reading) I will notice a camera pointed at me. Or, I will be out and will have people stop and ask if they can either take my picture or be taken in a picture with me. I have a small taste of what being a celebrity would feel like, and honestly I don't envy them their life one bit. There is also the element of somehow everyone knows everything about you despite living in a rather large city.
I am also getting used to being talked about while I am standing there. Although sometimes it will be done in English, generally it will be in Korean. A long conversation with my name scattered in here or there will be had while I stand there with a smile on my face wondering what is actually being said. Or, I will overhear people on the street talking about me with the one or two words of Korean I have picked up so far (and the fact that they are trying to covertly talk about me by whispering behind their hands while staring at me is generally a dead giveaway).
Then there are the frustrating moments when I will be standing in line and will be completely ignored or cut in front of. Whether it is from the fact that I am a foreigner (there is still a bit of racism in some parts towards foreigners) or from the fact that they don't feel like trying to communicate with me, either way it's frustrating. (Mostly the frustration comes from me not being able to communicate with them in their own language though.)
Then, there is the flip side to all of this. There is the side of Korea that I am certain you will have a hard time finding anywhere else in the world. For the most part the people I run into are so kind-hearted and amazing. Despite the language barrier, they try so hard to understand me and to help me out in anyway possible. It is "Korean style" to share everything they have with others and to make sure that one does not need anything. I can walk down the streets and feel far more safe than I would in America.
For example, the other week I was trying to find the subway station in a city that I had never been in before. After wandering around for a while I eventually asked a woman around my age for help as she was about to enter into her apartment building. She didn't speak any English at all but once she figured out where I was trying to go she motioned me to follow her and took me to the station. It was about a 15 minute walk and then she turned around and headed back home afterward. Just the sheer fact that she took 30 minutes out of her time says a lot about a person.
Then, there was the time that my card didn't work when I was getting food. Since I already mentioned it in here, I won't go into much detail other than to say that it was really nice of him. He didn't have to pay for my food. He didn't even have to talk to me at all in English. He went out of his way to be nice to me. This is "Korean style."
It is little things like this that make me love this country, despite the small frustrations and annoyances. The friends I have made here in this country have been absolutely amazing as well. I know that they understand everything that I am going through, as they too have experienced it and are still experiencing it. We all become frustrated with Korea and the way things are but by the end of the day, somehow the country always manages to win our hearts over once again.
I am hesitant to post this, lest people think that I hate it here or something. It's the exact opposite. There are downsides to living here, however, and I feel it's important that I embrace and remember both the good and the bad of living in this country. At the end of the day I know how good I have it to be living in a place like this. Everything is probably super easy compared to some other places I could have ended up at. I have decided, however, that the next country I teach in (yes, there will be a next if all goes according to MY plan) will be a cheese eating country. I really miss good cheese. :)